Le sigh. Every time I post an entry I promise myself that I will be better about keeping the blog up to date but life happens and the blog doesn’t. Since we have about 3 months since my farewell to the Upper Left Coast entry I’ll do this by the month.
July!
So after we crammed everything into the storage unit the three of us (Peter, Graeme and I) all boarded our flight and tried to sleep away the long, long, long, long trip to Melbourne. Once arrived, on the 9th of July, and baggage collected we taxi-pooled to our homes (we live within 2 blocks of Graeme). Peter gallantly carried me over the threshold as I entered my new home for the first time. It was nicer than I could see via Skype tours and I loved that I had an orange tree in the backyard.
The Australian wedding was scheduled for the 24th of July. We went to the restaurant that was our venue, Bluestone and met with the owner to discuss menus and planned on having dinner there our meeting so we could taste some of their food. Now this was the strange thing, nothing from dinner, not even the dishes we were tasting only because the owner wanted us to taste them, was comped. (We spent almost $200 on dinner that night) We were booking out the entire restaurant for our afternoon wedding, so they weren’t losing any dinner business, and had committed to a $4,000 minimum spend and they didn’t even comp us a couple of appetizers. At first I just brushed it off as me being too American but everyone we discussed it with was horrified. The other thing that concerned us was that the food that night was not as spectacular as we had hoped and heard about. It was good just not amazing. Too late now we said. We’ll just hope.
We also met with the Photographer Andrew Wuttke over coffee and walked around scoping spots for our pre-ceremony shots. He was awesome, amazing, brilliant. I cannot say enough good about Andrew.
So the wedding. Pete and I got ready at home and loaded ourselves into the Touareg, who had his fancy white ribbons on, and drove downtown to meet Andrew at 10:30. We spent the next 1.5 hours walking around downtown getting our photos taken. we walked so much I had to stop at a pharmacy and get squishy pads for the balls of my feet (not being used the wearing heels they were killing me!)

Getting foot relief
We got done with pictures and had a lovely little ceremony in the front area of the restaurant before we all sat down to eat. and the food was…….astounding! Not only was every mouthful divine they even managed to whip up a swoon worthy vegetarian meal for a guest that I only told them was required a couple hours before. We had lamb, lucious, tender, delightful lamb with glorious Shiraz. And the whole thing wound up costing less than expected. I went from being concerned to completely thrilled.
After dinner Peter’s mother Clasina stood with his father (John) and she presented me with a lovely silver bracelet while telling the following story: Annie Van’t Wout (Clasina’s mother and Peter’s Oma) wore 5 silver bracelets that she gave to her 5 daughters and those daughters had in term passed them to their daughters. And now it was a tradition that the daughters in the family would all receive a simple silver bracelet (though of course it wasn’t likely to be one of Oma Annie’s). And that is how I was welcomed into the family and of course I cried buckets, and so did everyone else!

Kissing in deGraves

Walking around town

The whole family
August!
August essentially consisted of us wandering the house saying “This is so wonderful!” “This is so strange!” We had been together in Australia for only a few months before I returned to Oregon and we had been doing a transcontinental relationship for over a year. Being in the same house everyday when everyday didn’t get us closer to separating gain was just weird. Fortunately we settled in well and didn’t have any squabbling or fighting. Peter put forth his best effort at helping me adjust, get through bouts of homesickness and resign myself to surviving a second winter. In order to do that we went on some lovely road trips.

From top of Hanging Rock

In the Gippsland Ranges
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Getting foot relief
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Walking around town
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Kissing in deGraves
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The whole family
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In the Gippsland Ranges
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From top of Hanging Rock
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September!
In September I was taunted with promises of better weather with a few days of warmth and sunshine surrounded by weeks of grey rain. We went for a couple of drives and of course attended the biggest event in Melbourne (from our couch) the AFL Grand Final.
I continue to work on my proposal and hope to have the first draft ready for Tom by the middle of October.
So my goal for the month is to try to post an update once a week. We’ll see how I go.
I miss everyone terribly and love you all!